But any number of times I’ve seen people who say they’re easily hurt, hurt other people for no apparent reason. Self-styled honest and open people, without realizing what they’re doing, blithely use some self-serving excuse to get what they want. And those “good at sensing others’ true feelings” are duped by the most transparent flattery. It’s enough to make me ask the question: How well do we really know ourselves?

Haruki Murakami

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What is “Friendzone”?

“It is a situation when a girl you like decides that you’re her friend, you’re no longer a dating option. You become this complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like her brother, or a lamp.”-- Ryan Reynolds, Just Friends 2005

If both party have no feelings what so ever for each other, then it would be great, but life is not that easy. Shit happens.

What should you do?

In my opinion, the best thing to do is to get the fuck out her life as soon as possible. 

A girl once said to me:

“Every girl needs a boy best friends”

What I said:

“Good luck to that guy”

And yes, I have experienced the friendzone. It was not cool and I decided to move on and live happily ever after.

-Love and Peace-

February meninggalkan kenangan buat diri guwa. Guwa got accepted for master degree dalam bulan February. Register pon bulan February. So far, everythings going good for me. Guwa harap bulan March ni akan membawa harapan yang baru dalam hidup guwa. Guwa memang tak suka buat rancangan masa panjang. Cukup sekadar buat target-target kecik setiap bulan. Bak kata omputeh,

“Baby steps become a giant leap”

Good luck to me! and Good luck to everyone! Hope March will bring something good to our lives!

-Love and Peace-

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And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.

Haruki Murakami

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